Matching Journey Steps
Surrogacy is a deeply emotional journey, and Babymoon is here to ensure you feel supported every step of the way. From one-on-one counseling to group sessions, you’ll never feel alone.
Profile Completation
Both surrogates and intended parents start by completing detailed profiles. These profiles allow us to understand you on a deeper level - your personal story, preferences, and values - ensuring that the match aligns with your vision of the surrogacy journey.
Personalized Matching
Once profiles are submitted, our expert Matching Specialists carefully review them to handpick potential matches based on compatibility in lifestyle, communication style, and goals for the surrogacy journey. This ensures that both parties feel confident and supported.
30 Minute Match Call
When a potential match is identified, we arrange a 30-minute call between the surrogate and the intended parents. This informal yet important meeting allows both parties to ask questions, share expectations, and explore their compatibility.
Ask Questions: Discuss perspectives on the surrogacy process and key details like communication preferences and expectations during the pregnancy.
Explore Compatibility: Openly talk about medical decisions, levels of involvement, and personal preferences that will shape the experience.
Important Matching Considerations
If both parties feel a connection after the initial call, they move forward to strengthen their relationship through ongoing communication. This can include deeper discussions about the pregnancy experience, birth plans, and regular check-ins. Surrogates and intended parents often form close, lifelong bonds, with our agency facilitating this process to foster trust and mutual respect.
To facilitate a strong and meaningful match, we consider several key factors:
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Communication Style: Preferences for communication frequency and style during and after the pregnancy.
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Location Preferences: Surrogates can specify preferred locations for intended parents, whether within the U.S. or internationally.
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Embryo Transfer Preferences: Discuss whether you are open to a single or multiple embryo transfers.
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Medical Preferences: Ensure shared views on important medical decisions, such as selective reduction or termination.
Surrogacy can be overwhelming, but our agency is committed to supporting you every step of the way. From the beginning, you’ll have access to a dedicated team that assists with everything, including:
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Emotional Support: We offer guidance, encouragement, and a listening ear for the emotional highs and challenges that may arise.
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Medical and Legal Assistance: Our team helps schedule medical appointments and navigates the legal processes involved, ensuring peace of mind.
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Matching Specialist Guidance: Our specialists will address any concerns or questions throughout the matching process and the surrogacy journey.
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What is surrogacy?Surrogacy is a process where a surrogate carries and delivers a baby for intended parents who are unable to conceive or carry a pregnancy. At Babymoon, we guide both intended parents and surrogates through this life-changing journey with care and transparency. Explore our Surrogacy Overview page to learn more.
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Who can become a surrogate?Women aged 21–42 with a history of at least one healthy pregnancy, a stable lifestyle, and a supportive environment are eligible. Exceptions up to age 45 may apply in certain cases. Visit our Surrogate Qualifications page for full eligibility details.
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How long does the surrogacy process take?The surrogacy process generally takes 12–18 months. Timelines vary based on factors like matching, medical evaluations, legal agreements, and pregnancy milestones. Learn more about the timeline on our Surrogacy Process page.
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What support does Babymoon provide?Babymoon provides dedicated case managers, counseling, support groups, and educational resources to ensure surrogates and intended parents feel supported throughout the journey. Explore our Support Services page for details.
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Do I need to have children to be a surrogate?Yes, surrogates must have had at least one healthy pregnancy and delivery. This ensures familiarity with the pregnancy process and confidence in carrying another child. Learn more about surrogate requirements on our Surrogate FAQs page.
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What compensation can I expect as a surrogate?Surrogates can earn up to $115,000, depending on experience and circumstances. Compensation includes additional benefits like maternity clothing allowances, travel reimbursements, and more. Visit our Pay & Benefits page for a full breakdown.
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Will I have medical and emotional support during the process?Yes, Babymoon ensures you have access to comprehensive medical care, psychological evaluations, and ongoing emotional support. Dedicated case managers and support groups are also available to assist you every step of the way. Explore our Support Services page for details.
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How do I begin the surrogacy process?Start by completing our intake form. Our team will review your application, conduct a pre-screening, and guide you through the next steps. Visit our Become a Surrogate page to get started.
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How are surrogates selected?Surrogates go through an extensive screening process that includes medical evaluations, psychological assessments, and background checks. This ensures that all surrogates meet the highest standards of health and readiness. Learn more about the matching process on our Intended Parents page.
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What is included in the surrogacy cost?Surrogacy costs cover surrogate compensation, medical expenses, legal fees, agency support, and additional benefits. Babymoon provides a detailed breakdown to ensure transparency. Visit our Cost of Surrogacy page for more information.
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Will I be involved in the pregnancy?Yes, intended parents can actively participate in the pregnancy by attending medical appointments, communicating with the surrogate, and collaborating on the birth plan. Learn more about this process on our Intended Parents FAQs page.
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Can I choose the surrogate I work with?Yes, Babymoon ensures a personalized matching process based on shared values, preferences, and expectations. This creates a strong connection between surrogates and intended parents. Visit our Matching Process page for details.
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Who can become an egg donor?Healthy women aged 21–32 with no significant medical history are eligible to donate eggs. Donors undergo medical evaluations and screenings to confirm eligibility. Explore our Egg Donation page for more details.
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Who can become a sperm donor?Healthy men aged 18–39 with no significant medical history are eligible to donate sperm. Donors are carefully screened to ensure they meet program requirements. Learn more on our Sperm Donation page.
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What compensation do donors receive?Egg donors and sperm donors receive competitive compensation for their time and generosity. Compensation varies based on the program and medical process involved. Visit our Donor Compensation page for more information.
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How do I get started as a donor?Start by filling out the donor application form. Our team will guide you through the evaluation and matching process. Learn more on our Become a Donor page.
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What is a pre-birth orderIn some states, intended parents can establish parentage of their child before they are born by having an attorney file a pre-birth order. This usually involves the intended parents and surrogate signing statements documenting parental rights for the unborn baby. Having a pre-birth order protects the intended parents' legal rights and ensures the post-birth process goes smoothly.
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Why do some intended parents have to adopt their baby?Some states may not allow you to complete either pre-birth or post-birth orders. This leaves you with the last way to establish parentage: an adoption. How you complete the adoption varies depending on factors such as your marital status. The process typically involves attending an adoption hearing, which your surrogacy lawyer prepares you for.
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Do surrogates have legal rights to the baby?No, surrogates have no parental rights to the baby. Legal agreements, prepared and signed before the pregnancy begins, ensure the intended parents are recognized as the baby’s legal guardians. Visit our Legal Process page for more information.
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Who covers medical expenses during the process?All medical costs related to surrogacy, including prenatal care, delivery, and any related procedures, are covered by the intended parents through insurance or other arrangements. Learn more about financial arrangements on our Costs page.